There's something I haven't been talking about and yet it's the most impactful thing that's been going on in my life for the past couple of years. Four years ago I met the man that is now my husband. At first it was amazing. But now? I've come to realize our relationship has been slowly dimming my light, draining my energy, and turning me back into a version of me that I had spent so much time and effort healing and growing from. For a while it was worth it. Challenges arose,

This past Mother's Day was quite an event and not for the reasons one would expect on such a specific day. Regardless, it was a day that marked both a significant end and new beginning in my life; a transition I have been waiting all my life for. I recently have come to realize that I am in perimenopause. What really tipped me off was the fact that one day not too long ago, I woke up and felt unignorably different. Not as if my very essence had changed, but as if Clarity hers